The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change by Stephen R. Covey

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

In The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, author Stephen R. Covey presents a holistic, integrated, principle-centered approach for solving personal and professional problems. With penetrating insights and pointed anecdotes, Covey reveals a step-by-step pathway for living with fairness, integrity, service, and human dignity -- principles that give us the security to adapt...

Title:The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
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ISBN:0743269519
Edition Language:English
Format Type:Paperback
Number of Pages:372 pages

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change Reviews

  • Virginia
    Sep 19, 2007

    Ever since I worked at the bookstore at Virginia Tech, I would watch the douchebag* business major undergrads buy this book for their classes and look down upon them, and the book by association, as, well, douchebags.

    *This is not to say that all undergrad business majors are douchebags. I've met one really really awesome one. Additionally, after working at a major university bookstore, a majority of all undergrad students can be fairly classified as douchebags. Jebus.

    Consequently, I never picked

    Ever since I worked at the bookstore at Virginia Tech, I would watch the douchebag* business major undergrads buy this book for their classes and look down upon them, and the book by association, as, well, douchebags.

    *This is not to say that all undergrad business majors are douchebags. I've met one really really awesome one. Additionally, after working at a major university bookstore, a majority of all undergrad students can be fairly classified as douchebags. Jebus.

    Consequently, I never picked up this book. I hated the people who were reading it for class. I hated the people who were assigning it for their classes. I hated my job and I hated the area that I was living in. (I was, yes indeedy, a hater)

    Obviously it wasn't the right time for me to read it.

    My current boss (who is only occasionally a douchebag) is doing this huge self-help/life plan program, and from it, there is a major reading list. As I am a wee bit addicted to books, I immediately agreed, and when I started searching on Amazon for the reading list, "7 Habits" appeared on pretty much every single page. So I picked that one up too.

    Excellent decision. I chose to read it first. It has taken me, probably three weeks to read it. I have ordered (with my boss' blessing) "The 8th Habit" and will read that shortly.

    Every single page I found something that made me put the book down for a couple of minutes and think about it. I already know that I'm going to have to re-read this at some point in the near future. I would say this is required reading for humanity, but my father would have been the exception to that rule.

    Basically, this book will teach you about effective ways to be a compassionate, kind, enjoyable human being. It will teach you about personal responsibility (personal as in to your self, and to others). It will teach you how to be a better parent, employee, spouse, daughter, or boss.

    I can't give it enough praise. It is a truly outstanding book.

  • Malbadeen
    Oct 25, 2007

    I think the sign of a great book is when, right inside the cover there is a pull out brochure that encourages you to order more of the authors products - that's some quality shit when you see that.

    But the book itself, well it has charts: flow charts, boxed charts, circle charts, up and down charts, sideways charts, charts with arrows, charts with triangles and charts with dotted lines.

    This book uses words like "synergy" and "proactive"....repeatedly

    This book has "application suggestions".

    This

    I think the sign of a great book is when, right inside the cover there is a pull out brochure that encourages you to order more of the authors products - that's some quality shit when you see that.

    But the book itself, well it has charts: flow charts, boxed charts, circle charts, up and down charts, sideways charts, charts with arrows, charts with triangles and charts with dotted lines.

    This book uses words like "synergy" and "proactive"....repeatedly

    This book has "application suggestions".

    This book is shiny and it has 6 pages of recommendations before the title page.

    This book makes me want to barf - A LOT! so much so, that I could even stop watching what I eat because I'd be barfing up all the calories anyway. I could eat and eat and eat and barf and barf and barf and it wouldn't be a disorder because it would all happen naturally - no effort on my part, just read and barf, read and barf - like that.

    This book is my assigned reading for tonight, this review received more of my attention than the assigned reading will.

  • Chad Warner
    Mar 30, 2009

    This book explains 7 Habits that can make a person more effective personally, professionally, and in family life. Covey shows how to build the healthy relationships that are key to an effective life. This classic is well worth reading for its perspective and practical advice.

    : Covey frequently references his Christianity. He says the Habits are based on "Correct Principles" (aka Natural Law) found in Judeo-Christian scriptures and common to major religions.

    :

    This book explains 7 Habits that can make a person more effective personally, professionally, and in family life. Covey shows how to build the healthy relationships that are key to an effective life. This classic is well worth reading for its perspective and practical advice.

    : Covey frequently references his Christianity. He says the Habits are based on "Correct Principles" (aka Natural Law) found in Judeo-Christian scriptures and common to major religions.

    : Covey says you must maintain a balance between production (P; your output) and production capability (PC; your ability to produce). You must stay healthy and renew yourself (see Habit 7) or you'll get burned out and become ineffective. He uses the fable of the Goose and the Golden Egg as a metaphor.

    : Covey says the Habits lead you from dependence to independence to interdependence (cooperating with others to achieve a common goal; producing things greater than the sum of their parts).

    You choose how to respond to what life throws at you. Take responsibility for your actions.

    Choose your short-term, daily behavior according to the plan you have for your entire life. Think about the legacy you want to leave. Put things in perspective; what would you want people to say at your funeral?

    Daily planning is too narrow and short-sighted. Weekly planning gives a better big-picture perspective of your goals, and allows for the flexibility to deal with the things that will inevitably come up.

    People are more important than things, so plan your time accordingly. Be efficient with things, but effective with people. You can't be efficient with relationships; they take time.

    Only spend time on things that align with your deep values. Don't waste time on other things, even if it means saying no to requests. Don't prioritize your schedule; schedule your priorities.

    Think of tasks in terms of urgency and importance. Focus on the important, even though they seem less urgent. Think preventatively to keep tasks from ever becoming urgent.

    Use stewardship delegation instead of "gofer" delegation; teach a person to be the steward of the task you assign to them, rather than constantly telling them to "go for this" or "go for that".

    Most of life requires cooperation, not competition. Work together with co-workers, friends, and family for mutual benefit. Approach everything in terms of "win/win or no deal"; if you can't reach a deal in which both parties feel they're winning, don't make a deal at all.

    Think in terms of the Abundance Mentality rather than the Scarcity Mentality; The quest for recognition, credit, power, and profit isn't a zero-sum game. Be happy when others succeed.

    Listen with the intent to understand, not to reply. Diagnose before you prescribe.

    To understand others, listen with empathy. To be understood, present your views according to:

    : personal credibility

    : emotional alignment with the other person

    : logical reasoning

    You can't motivate people by appealing to satisfied needs (money, status, etc.); only unsatisfied needs motivate.

    Value the differences in relationships.

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    Renew and improve in yourself in the following categories, by spending at least an hour each day.

    • Physical: Eat right and exercise

    • Spiritual: Find and carry an inner peace. Meditate, read scripture, or spend time in nature.

    • Mental: Read good literature to gain the insights of others. Write, organize, and plan.

    • Social/emotional: Understand others. Serve others, at work or through volunteering.

  • Amer Alkharoubi
    Nov 17, 2010

    أول قراآتي لستيفن كوفي كانت "ترتيب الأولويات .. المهم يأتي أولا" !! وبدع قراءتي لهذا الكتاب اكتشفت أنه اصدر قبل الكتاب الآخر بأكثر من ٧ سنوات

    كتاب العادات السبع كتاب مأصدر عام ١٩٨٩ ولازال يغير في الناس من ذلك الحين

    من الكتب التي يجب اقتناؤها و تدريسها وقراءتها بين فترة وأخرى وخاصة أوقات التخطيط والتغيير

    رائع ويفتح لك مجالات وأفكار لم تكن لديك أي فكرة عنها أو كانت غائبة عن ذهنك

    باختصار .. لو عاد بي الزمن ، سأقرأ هذا الكتاب كأول مادة أقرأها بعد تعلمي للقراءة

  • Stephen
    Apr 27, 2011

    First, a few comments on the seven so-called “habits” identified in the book, namely:

    First, a few comments on the seven so-called “habits” identified in the book, namely:

    In a word…..

    !!

    In several words, what a

    .

    …are you kidding me with this Jim Jones Kool-aid party chant?

    ….just hearing that word makes me throw up in my mouth.

    ….exactly…reading that phrase makes me literally want to sharpen the saw and slice a hate filled path through the contents of this book.

    This book is like a giant fortune cookie full of sounds good but says nothing.

    : rather than read this book, go get a six pack or a bottle of wine, grab some

    or

    and find a nice comfy tree to sit under while you read something that might actually expand your mind.

    Now I certainly don't have any foolproof answers or magic exercises that will help you bring out the "inner-winner" inside you. However, I did come up five pracical (and hopefully a little humorous) habits that have proven to be pretty effective at making people successful in their chosen field (tongue planted firmly in cheek).

    1.

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    5.

    THE END.....

  • Manny
    Aug 11, 2011

    - Hon, did you sleep okay? You look kinda weird.

    - Well, I don't know how to say this...

    - Yes?

    - I had this dream where I talked with God.

    - Was She black?

    - No, I'm serious! I did! It was, like, utterly real. It was the most real thing that's ever happened to me.

  • MJ Nicholls
    Apr 14, 2013

    One of the most-highlighted books on Kindle, proving that human beings thrive on snappy buzz-quotes written by middle managers like David Brent who partake of the music of M People and

    Kool & The Gang, and whose souls were long ago vacuumed out in a boardroom somewhere during a PowerPoint presentation. Regard:

    This incoherent drivel has the most highlights. Regard the faux-profound self-importance of the “cannot”

    One of the most-highlighted books on Kindle, proving that human beings thrive on snappy buzz-quotes written by middle managers like David Brent who partake of the music of M People and

    Kool & The Gang, and whose souls were long ago vacuumed out in a boardroom somewhere during a PowerPoint presentation. Regard:

    This incoherent drivel has the most highlights. Regard the faux-profound self-importance of the “cannot” in this sentence, as though securing the attention of Jim Phelps CEO of E-Z-Clix Online Supplies is the pinnacle of human achievement.

    You can say this imbecilic utterance in any accent, or at any speed you like, and it still would be a piece of drivelling cack. It would still linger on the brain for a second as a semi-intelligent observation, before pooling slowly to the floor like the incoherent dog-drool it really is when given two seconds thought.

    Die now. Die now, you patronising ill-bred country-club smug-face slab of nothing. See how that semicolon WINKS at you, as if to say: “Just listen to my me and everything will be all right. Just quote this vacuous frog-plop at the next AGM and sit back as the room erupts into spontaneous applause. Told you so!”

    Translation: proactive people are greedy loveless cash-licking pus-heads.

    Are you sure it’s not our response to our response to what happens to us that hurts us? Or our response to our response to our response to what happens to us that hurts us is what hurts us and us and us and them?

    P = how many eggs stakeholders want chickens to shit out, vs. PC = how many eggs the chickens are capable of shitting out if kept in airless cages and fed reheated bull droppings. “Squeeze ‘em harder, Mr Pancks!”

    Condescending fake-friendliness masking resentment and loathing.

    OH MOMMY MAKE IT STOP!

  • Pouting Always
    Jan 03, 2017

    An okay book if you don't know how to manage your life it's probably really helpful but if you've thought about how to make yourself more productive or effective a lot of it's intuitive. Also like a lot of these books can only tell you things you have to make the changes yourself which is always the hard part so. This one was better written than most which I appreciate.


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